EQUALITY - NONVIOLENCE Wheel

• Non - Threatening Behavior - Taking and acting so that she feels safe and comfortable expressing herself and doing things.
• Respect - Valuing opinions, Listening to her nonjudgmentally, being emotional affirming and understanding
• Trust and Support - Supporting her goals in life, Respecting her right to her own feelings, friends, activities and opinions.
• Honesty and Accountability - Accepting responsibility for self, acknowledging past us of violence, admitting being wrong, communicating openly and truthfully
• Responsible Parenting - Sharing parental responsibilities, being a positive non-violent role model for the children
• Shared Responsibility - Mutually agreeing on a fair distribution of work, making family decisions together
• Economic partnership - Making money decisions together, making sure both partners benefit from financial arrangements.
• Negotiation and Fairness - Seeking mutually satisfying resolutions to conflict, accepting change, being willing to compromise

Nurturing Children Wheel (Choose Respect)

• Trust and Respect - Acknowledge feelings, Promote Independence, Respect Policy
• Provide Emotional Security - Talk and Act So Children Feel Safe and Comfortable, Expressing Themselves, Be Gentle
• Provide Physical Security - Monitor Safely, Attend to Wounds, Maintain a Family Routine, Provide for the Child’s Needs
• Provide Discipline - Be consistent & provide structure, Ensure rules are Appropriate to Age and Development of Child, Be Clear About Rules & Expectations
• Give Time - Participate in Your Children's Live, Reveal Who You Are To Your Children
• Encourage & Support - Be Affirming, Let Children Disagree With You, Let Them Make Mistakes, Recognize Improvement
• Give Affection - Express Verbal and Physical Affection
• Care for Yourself - Accept Love, Keep Yourself Healthy